Life, Love, Peace

Inspiration #7 - Smile

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Are you familiar with the old pop song called “Smile?” See if this refresher helps:

Smile though your heart is aching Smile even though it’s breaking When there are clouds in the sky You’ll get by If you smile through your fear and sorrow Smile and maybe tomorrow You’ll see the sun come shining through For you

Light up your face with gladness Hide every trace of sadness Although a tear May be ever so near That’s the time you must keep on tryin’ Smile, what’s the use of cryin’ You’ll find that life is still worthwhile If you’d just smile…

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The assignment for this week is "Smile"

I had found a couple of days ago that Alison from sunfishyoga  had nominated me for the Beautiful Blogger Award.   She is the beautiful one and I am very honored.  The real honor is to be able to share love and peace with all of you, that is what keeps me going.   So, to fulfill the duties of this award, I am asked to nominate six of some of the other beautiful blogs.  I would also like to add that these are six from a list of many and all of the blogs are equally beautiful and create happiness, love and peace in my life.  So, here there are, and please visit them.  I’m sure you will enjoy as much as I.

The Laughing Bunny

soulful existence

Body & Mind

Life is a moment

Life is a soft adventure

From Nowhere to Now Here

Again I would like to thank Alison.  May you all have a peaceful and joyous day!

Tammy

“You have no water” my mother  had told me on Wednesday night.   A shock to one’s system when water is available to us everyday, twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week.  Funny how we just go about our lives and can get so involved with going here, getting this or that finished, paying bills, etc. , not ever thinking that something so vital could be gone like the snap of a finger.

By now you may ask the question: “how did it happen?”  Let’s just say that water for my house was provided by a well.  Water was available for my house as well as two others.  For many years this mechanical beauty has provided a service and now her time had expired.  She was tired and could not keep up the pace any longer.

When I first heard that there was no water and probably would not be fixed for a couple of weeks, I had a feeling of aggravation.  But after the shock wore off and I sat there for a moment to take it in, I began to think how blessed I was to even have the luxury of water.  Yes,  I am referring to water as a luxury because my mind pictured all the people in the world who have a limited supply of water and those who don’t have water at all.

So, I decided to embrace this as a life experience and not as a tragedy.  When you really take a step back and see how rich you are (not in the material aspect), but for life’s little blessings, the love and happiness from within shines out.   I was on a stay here retreat of surviving with natural resources and thankful for the opportunity.

The  length of my retreat was only four days, but the knowledge I gained will be with me a lifetime.

May your day be blessed and peaceful!

When those things in life seem to have you frustrated or stressed, just remember how blessed you are to  experience them.

The qualities within a place that is special to us are deeply personal and often help us define who we are.  Either a lake house setting, a mountain lodge, a seashore cottage or a backyard at twilight, our sensory connections to these special places shape us in extensive and lasting ways.  The strongest memories of childhood are our experiences of our hometowns and spots where we ran free during summer vacations.

This connection to place is one that we carry within ourselves for a lifetime.  Nobel Prize-winning author William Faulkner noted that his own “little postage stamp of native soil” was an inexhaustible source of material.    Fellow Mississippian and Pulitzer Prize winner Eudora Welty wrote, “Place absorbs our earliest notice and attention, it bestows on us our original awareness; and our critical powers spring up from the study of it and the growth of experience inside it.  It is to th is place that each of us goes to find the clearest, deepest identity of ourselves.”

Psychologist Carl Jung lived nearly half his life in a home he built-in the village of Bolligen, on Switzerland’s Lake Zurich.  In his memoir, Memories, Dreams, Reflections, Jung remarked, “At Bolligen, I am in the midst of my true life, I am most deeply myself.  At times I feel as if I am spread out over the landscape and inside things, and am myself living in every tree, in the splashing of the waves, in the clouds and the animals that come and go, in the procession of the seasons.  In Bolligen, silence surrounds me almost audibly, and I live in modest harmony with nature.”

Iona Dreaming: The Healing Power of Place, is Claire Cooper Marcus’ journal of her six months on the Scottish island of Iona.  The author writes, ” I feel pure in this place.  It is as if there was no separation between my living, breathing, perceiving body and my soul-nature.  No posturing, no pretending.  I am who I am-no more, no less.  As my breathing slows and I relax, I experience the sound of the sea passing through me–not me hearing the sea, not me and the sea–just the sound.  A breeze blows across my face; the sun shines on my cheeks and forehead.  For a moment, they seem to penetrate my body.  Then, they just are.  My body ceases to exist.  No Claire or ego or a specific person, but a manifestation of divine energy just like everything around me…our separateness just an illusion.”

These kinds of intimate experiences occur most often when we are in a relaxed or meditative state, or spending full-bodied, multisensory, open-hearted time in nature.  Such moments inspire the experience described by American Poet Robinson Jeffers in which we “fall in love outward.”

This article today provided by Linda Sechrist- a senior staff writer for Natural Awakenings magazines.

Where is your Power of Place?

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“Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair, but manifestations of strength and resolution.” –Kahlil Gibran

Reading: Read the chapter called “Empathy” Kindness Theme: Put Yourself in Another Person’s Place

The concept for this assignment is described toward of the end of the chapter when Ferrucci introduces Laura Huxley and her book “You Are Not the Target.” He writes, …

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This week's Assignment for the Power of Kindness class. Love and peace to all! Tammy

Today is Friday and I know that everyone is excited for the weekend.  Well, that is great for those of you who have a whole weekend to enjoy, but for me work takes up my two days of what would be delightful to have to just do whatever I wanted.  Maybe soon the universe will be on my side and grant those winning numbers to light up my life!  As we know that is the fantasy world and it is nice to dream, right?

I saw this video and wanted to share it with all of you.  My real wish would be to have everyone live in peace.  I mean isn’t that what we are here for is to live and love  everyone for the days on this earth.

So, may you all have a beautiful and peaceful weekend and enjoy!

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“In about the same degree as you are helpful, you will be happy.” –Karl Reiland

Reading: Read the chapter called “Warmth” Kindness Theme: Provide “A Warming Help” to Another

In the book’s introduction, Ferrucci refers to the current climate of human relations as an Ice Age and suggests that the increase in panic attacks and depression is related to there being a shortage of warmth in our connections.

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Hello bloggers! I have been missing you! For those who are participating in the Power of Kindness class, here is Assignment #5. I missed Assignment #4, sorry. If you would like more information, you can visit: www.kindliving.net

Mother’s Day is this Sunday and as a mother myself it is a great honor to remember how thankful I am to be a mom.  There are some mom’s out there who work hard, not just at a job, but at home-cooking, cleaning, taking care of the children.  Some may have that dream their husbands would just help once in a while.

I was reading Working Mother magazine and on the very last page I saw a little blurb titled: “the last word- What I want (to give up) for Mother’s Day…”  The five suggestions listed below were interesting and could work.  I hope you enjoy reading as much as I.

1.  I want our husbands/significant others to celebrate Mother’s Day 2012 by permanently taking equal responsibility for the house being acceptably clean and organized.  It’s not just our house; it’s also their house.  We working moms are ready to give up 50 percent of the housework and 50 percent of the “messy house guilt” to our partners.  Please take this gift!

2.  I want our companies to celebrate Mother’s Day by offering us the tough assignments that come with the big money.  We working moms work like crazy at our jobs, and we now want to give up doing the work without the money and promotion because someone believes we don’t/won’t/can’t want them.  Give us the chance to say yes or  no.

3.  I want our bosses and peers to stop doubting us because we leave at 5:15 to pick up our kids from day care three days a week.  Working mothers go online at 9 p.m. to complete tasks, we sacrifice school plays when that’s the right choice; and we are the most focused, efficient employees you’ll ever meet.  Please give up “face time” as a measure of our commitment.

4.  I want our schools to celebrate Mother’s Day by acknowledging that most of their “customers” are working parents who desperately want to be involved in their children’s schools.  We’ll gladly give up our evening time if you’ll schedule meetings and activities when we can be there!

5.  I want my children to celebrate Mother’s Day by making macaroni necklaces for me.  I won’t give up on that!  Actually, since my children are 25 and 22, I’ll settle for two nice Hallmark cards.

This “last word” provided by Carol Evans, President of Working Mother Media.

When I started with WordPress, I really had no clue how to build a blog, or for that matter anything about blogging.  As all of you know, the more time and practice you put into the project you are working on, you learn from your errors , through which skill and experience blossom.  There have been many times I was ready to pack it in and give up on the blogging scene.   After the ups and downs, walking away from the computer and some days frustrated with myself, I decided to stay and I am grateful.

I don’t really recall how long I have had this blog and that is not the point of this post.  About a week ago, I was reading my comments and to my surprise found out that  Mars  had nominated me for the Versatile Blog Award.    She has such a great heart and a wonderful blog.  You can visit her here:  http://hereismars.wordpress.com.

So, upon accepting this great honor, I would like to share the blogs that have inspired me, made me laugh, opened my heart and ones that just spoke to me on a particular day.  Hope you will enjoy them too!

thecreativepanic

Nick Exposed

megan unedited

A Traveller’s Tale

Goss Coaching

A Girl Can Dream, Right?

Live for Today

and we all know frogs

findingmyworth

Missus Layam

Life’s Journey

free the bird

Sincerely, Your Neighbor

Life is a moment

Love 2 Type

I want to also thank everyone who has visited, subscribed and followed!  The blogging community has been a blessing to me and the many connections I have built with people from around the world!  It’s not just another place to type, it is a way to come together and if I can say you all are like family!

So, on to the second  contribution that is part of the acceptance.  Revealing seven things about myself!  I don’t know if you are ready, I mean it might be too much for you seeing that my life is so exciting!  Ha ha!  Well, here it is anyway, maybe it will make you laugh!

1.  I hate cellphones!!!

2. I have a craving for sour cream and vinegar for dipping bread.

3.  I love, love, love Ben & Jerry’s cherry Garcia ice cream!

4.  I am a Bingo fanatic!

5.  Have a passion to capture life through my second eyes (my camera).

6.  I like to wave at people who are riding my tail end while driving!  ( some people really hate that!)

7.  My only hope of marriage was shattered the day that Jake Owen proposed to his girlfriend!

I want to again thank Mars for this gift and may you all have a peaceful and joyous weekend!

Saturday night and I get the opportunity to have dinner with my parents.  I am grateful because they are taking me to dinner in celebration of my birthday.  Life gets busy and time is so precious and there are many moments I lose myself and forget how blessed I am to have the best mom and dad in my life.

I was able to pick where I wanted to eat, and I chose the Tropical Jerk Restaurant, on U.S. 1 and Georgia Avenue in Fort Pierce, Florida.  Every weekend I pass it on the way home, hearing the Reggae music that the live band beautifully plays on Friday and Saturday  nights.   I was so excited to try the food and my stomach was ready as well.

We arrived about  7:00 p.m. and a young woman opened the

door with a radiant smile and said: “hello, welcome to Tropical Jerk.”  As we walked in, it was as if you were in Jamaica.  The walls painted with Jamaican scenes, beautiful flowers, fish and a soothing fountain.

So, we are looking at the menu and everything sounds delicious.  They have Jerk Chicken, Seared Yellowfin Tuna, Curry Chicken, Fried Calamari, Fried Plantains and Sweet Potato Fries, etc.

We started with an appetizer: Fried Plantains and Sweet Potato Fries.

We finally decided what we were having: Dad and I had the Seared Yellowfin Tuna, which comes with soup or salad and two sides.

The photo above is the Yellowfin Tuna-cooked medium with rice and peas and plantains.  It was quite tasty!

This was the first time I have dined here and it was a beautiful experience!  This restaurant is owned by Mark and Mike Anderson and the hospitality and the love for all who walk through the doors is amazing!  They greet you with a smile and treat you like part of the family.

If you have not been there to eat, I highly recommend trying it!

We are going again this Saturday.

If these photos make you hungry, go over there and eat, they are open for lunch!

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